"enjoy life ... this is not a rehearsal"

What's different?

view from our villa towards the pool

Language

I think that many British people who live on the Costa Blanca, know enough Spanish to make themselves understood in simple situations. Those who cannot must find it difficult in shops, markets, restaurants, answering the phone etc. I have a couple of holiday phrase books (one is in my handbag all the time) a couple of dictionaries a tape I can listen to when I take the dog for a walk and a CD rom when I need to be able to read the words as well as listen to them.. This is the least I would feel comfortable with. I can vividly remember my first visit to a Spanish supermarket. I wanted to buy milk, but the skimmed variety. Skimmed was not in the phrase book and I spent more time than I needed to walking up and down the aisle trying to work it all out. I needed to learn numbers, days of the week, colours, greetings and at least how to order a coffee or a bottle of water in a cafe. There was also the visit to the local dentist for the replacement of a lost filling! (but that is another story!) The pronunciation of letters in Spanish words, we are so familar with in English, is also a stumbling block."h", not pronounced at all, "e" is always pronounced as in the English word "hello". What about "j"? this is pronounced like the "ch" in loch. I needed the tape and cd rom to help with this!
The Berlitz phrase book and the BBC "Get by in Spanish" were very helpful to me in the first few months.The first thing I did was find out what the emergency telephone number was and write on a card next to the phone our address and "es urgente; necesito una ambulancia". Asking for help in an emergency is a worry when you have only just arrived in Spain with very little Spanish.
This is one of the best sites I came across when I was a teacher Enchanted Learning - Spanish
Make sure you have enough paper in the printer!

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Security

The way we have to secure our home in Spain, came as a shock. We have been very fortunate and in the 5 years we have been owners, we have not had any security incidents. We do however, take security seriously. We have a dog and an alarm. We always lock up completely when we leave the villa and when we go to bed. We lock the gates when we are enjoying a spot of sunbathing and keep valuables under lock and key. There have been instances of bag snatching so I take special care when out and about with my handbag. The urbanisations have grown so large and numerous over the last few years they have outstripped the ability of the Police to deal with the crimes. Quesada has an active Neighbourhood Watch Scheme. I am the incident co-ordinator and maintain their website. You can see the types of crime reported in Quesada, download our informative leaflets and read our minutes at http://www.rojalesnw.info Many thieves are opportunists, so lock up and look after your property.

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TV

Love it or hate it, television can be company, informative and entertaining. When we first bought our apartment we used the Sky system that we were paying for back in England. We lived on the side of a hill and could never receive ITV but then we lost BBC due to their decision to change to a narrow beam. Sky news, Sky One, Channel 5 became our only choice for viewing. We quickly realised that you cannot view and swim or view and sunbathe or view and read or view and talk or view and walk! So can we adapt to life with less TV? You bet! We have given up our Sky subscription now we are permanently in Spain, have bought a new home and have a different system. We can receive BBC and ITV again but we have also managed to tune into Spanish TV too. We might watch more TV in the winter months but the outdoor life in Spain calls very loudly!( apart from when a "very important" football match needs to be watched!)

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Food

To enjoy life in Spain, I think we have to be flexible...willing to try food we have not tried before I was so used to cheese made with cow's milk, that I wondered what the combination of cow's, goat's and sheep's milk would taste like...pretty good! Vegetables, again a little different. Plenty of broccoli, courgettes, artichokes, cabbage, green beans...but if you want a cauliflower prepare to pay for the privilege. Spanish Tortilla either with or without onion is so tasty and what about the alli oli, garlic mayonaise...but Where is the stuffing? and the gravy mix? and as I am vegetarian, where are the "Quorn" products. I can make stuffing... but I can't find any sage. I now grow my own. I can make my own gravy from vegetable cubes but I do miss the vegetarian protein.I know I can get it "at a price" at the English supermarkets but we are here for years so would prefer some local options. Brian loves fish...tuna, prawns, crab; lots of choice either fresh or frozen. Bread is so tasty and as in the UK, you can buy it just baked or sliced in plastic bags!I have a bread maker now too. What can I say about the fruit?...such a variety of melons, oranges for eating, marmalade and juicing,lemons for marmalade or gin! but grapefruit is not so plentiful. We have just planted a grapefruit tree so we will have our own at the end of the year.

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Shopping

Where we live, no Marks and Spencer or Littlewoods! There are supermarkets such as Carrefour where you can buy everything under one roof. This is great when you are a newcomer to Spain but shops in your local town should give better value for money. Large supermarkets seem to stay open all day e.g. Mercadona but smaller ones on the urbanisations, tend to have a siesta. The siesta takes some getting used to! Most shops and businesses close at 1 or 2pm and open again at 4 or 5pm. This effectively means, no shopping in the afternoon. If you buy a piece of furniture and delivery is promised for the afternoon, this means between 4 and 7pm. All towns and villages have a weekly market. These are great places to buy cooked chickens, bedding, sandals, plants and secondhand books. In my experience, they are not good places to buy electrical goods and vegetables have to be carefully chosen. Some markets are huge and claustrophobic; my favourite is a Sunday market on the road to San Miguel and a Thursday market in Rojales. They all seem to close around 2pm. The furniture shops are excellent and have goods to suit all purses. When you buy furniture and white goods, they are delivered and fitted and the empty boxes removed. An excellent service. It amazed me that shops would only require a small deposit and the balance to be paid in cash to the driver on delivery. Those drivers must be handling hundredso of euros each day.

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Telephone

Telefonica initiates the expat into the ways of Spain quite quickly! Helpfully, they provide an English speaking service; phone 1004 and say, "Hola, habla ingles por favor?" Telefonica have a "Europa 15" service...for a monthly charge (9 euros) you can use 15 mins calling the UK each evening after 8 pm. If you use more than this, they bill you at 12 cents a minute. There are also other companies that offer a cheaper call rate to the UK and also for local calls, we connect to their system using a number prefix.
By far the cheapest way of contacting family and friends in the uk is to buy a phone card. For 12 euros you get a staggering amount of time. This can be used from your home phone and at any time of the day too.
Although the user manual for the Telefonica Domo phone is in Spanish, there have been various translations into English. Rojales Neighbourhood Watch have an English manual on their website http://www.rojalesnw.info The very least we needed to know was how to activate the answerphone and then to change the recorded voice to English; everything else is icing on the cake.

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Connecting to the internet

If you try to connect to the ISP you had in UK, it's an overseas call to connect to them from Spain. Gonuts4free is a Spanish ISP whose instructions can be printed in the UK and used when you finally arrive here. They will also send you a CD Rom to connect you automatically. Most areas now have Broadband but if you want to use dial-up there are different packages from Terra, Orange, Ya and others

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